Play friendly massage oil - Easy Recipes for service submissives

Just to start brothers and sisters in subbie-ness – if you don’t know what scent your Mistress likes, you should submit yourself for remonstration.   Which is a big word for “punishment”.  

If you still don’t though – try something unscented to start with, and ask Her after you’ve helped Her relax properly.

A word of free warning for the slower boys?    No matter what you want – don’t use honey.   Or sugar.  Or juices.  Or chocolate, whipped cream, or flavored lubes.   You seriously risk giving Her an infection, or a chemical burn, or making a mess that She won’t thank you for.   This massage should be for Her, not for your libido.

Two recipes then – one all natural and edible (and mouth friendly…just sayin - ^.^;;; ) and the other made from a non-edible base that works reaaaally well for slippery times.   Clear Her preference with Her before using either.  

Mostly Edible Massage Oil 

1/2 cup coconut oil

3 drops vitamin E oil

2-3 drops essential oil  (if you know Her taste.  Look over https://www.planttherapy.com/blog/2014/01/14/can-essential-oils-be-ingested/ before you hit the store. )

    Warm the coconut oil slowly in a fondue pot, or in a small glass measuring cup using the microwave.   If microwaving, use 2-3 second bursts – you want to soften it, not melt it.    A great tool for this is one of the self-warming waxing pots set on low – you can find them on Amazon.  Use a disposable wooden flat (NOT a spoon) or a metal skewer to work the vitamin E oil into the warmed coconut oil.   (Again, WARMED, not melted or liquid).

    If you’re truly a service sub to a Mistress – learning to wax and having the equipment is a good investment.   The wooden flats they come with are perfect disposable pieces for stirring one-time-use massage oil.   

 Penetration Massage Oil

1/4 cup pre-mixed J-lube.  ( For directions on how to make this incredibly useful boy-supply – see the next time I write.  ^.^ )

2-3 drops essential oil (see above and remember – this massage might get…penetrate-ey.   For Her, or for you – as She pleases.  Pay attention to what oils can be ingested – they can generally also be inserted.   Avoid cinnamon and clove like the plague.   Trust this boy on that.) 

    As above, warm slowly in a fondue pot, or a small glass measuring cup in the microwave unless you have a wax warmer.   If you have that (and why don’t you, stupid boy?) then use the warmer – it keeps things warm.

Tips

Apply the oil with slow, even strokes that follow the muscle line, beginning at the core of the body, leading pressure towards the core of the body with pressure on the front of the hand, and returning outwards with pressure on the palm.  Reverse the motion slowly as Her skin begins to warm and redden.  Use gentle (and slowly strengthening) kneading motions on shoulders, buttocks, inner thighs and the back of the neck.  Pay close attention to Her signals – it’s a massage, not foreplay.   As in everything, let Her lead and trust Her desires. 

As a service boy (or girl), consider taking a class – I (and many servants I know) have taken several and it’s generally worthwhile.   Check into the qualifications of the instructor, or into the organization offering the classes.   Skip the “sensual lovers’ massage” courses and look for something that will last more than an hour on the weekend.  Preferably something at least a full 8-10 hours a day for a weekend – or 4 hours a day for 2-3 weekends.  Isn’t She worth it? 

For what I said earlier on waxing – there are (pathetically few and rare) classes available on giving waxing on the body and almost none for the genitals.   In some states you can take the training for it through state certified classes without having to study for an entire cosmetology license.  If you just do a stand along class, check the instructor’s training and go with someone who is certified by a state or legitimate board of examination.   Doing things the wrong way in this kind of service can cause even worse infections and health problems for Her than the chocolate whipped cream.   

If you learn it well and learn to do it painlessly, it becomes an incredible plus in your value to Her, and Her friends or future Mistresses. 

And as always –

Focus on the Service, not the sex.