Newbie sub/guys - please...for the love of God!

Please, for the love of God. Please! Stop. Making. Us. All. Look. Like. Assholes. Online.

There are entire frakking boards dedicated to how we, as a group, manage to insult, disgust, irritate and offend Dommes and Doms alike. But we don't. YOU do.

Please stop naming yourself "AssHoleSniffingBunny", and "LiX4U". "Lik3sTaFuk" is also a bad one, and "BigCockSubBoy" should never have been typed. Ever. (Those are all changed to protect the guilty, moderators, I swear!) Why should you stop naming yourselves that? Because those names are FUCKING retarded, and make us all look like we think with our dicks. Names should mean something other than "I have a 10 point IQ to go with my (supposed) 10" dick!".

B? Stop. Making. Us. All. Look. Like. Assholes. At. Events.

I go to events quietly. I lurk; no denials. I work in a field where being out-ed would destroy my career. When I get brave enough to go to events, I stay in the background, I make myself look as generic as possible, and I listen twice as much as I speak.

When some of you go to events, you can't shut up. You run on, and on, and fucking ON about how "great" you are at X (oral), Y ("service" with your dick), and Z (oral. AGAIN.). You touch without being invited. You call yourselves Doms to sister subs, and call yourselves slaves to the Dom/mes.

You interrupt scenes, take pictures with cell phones, hit on other peoples' Dom/mes and subs, and do things that get the rest of us uninvited. Ever want to know why it's so hard for single, unclaimed, untrained submissive guys to find someone at events? Well, there you go. Ass.

C? Stop. Making. Us. All. Look. Like. Assholes. Period.

I over heard twelve versions of "you know what sub guys are like". At one frakking munch. ONE. MUNCH.

We have a shit reputation, because of one or two (or fifty) shit guys who identify themselves as subs to try and get laid. You go up to Pro Dommes, try to scam them out of free play time and fantasy material, and then get pissy and call them "whores". You try to "steal" another boy's Mistress (as if she was something that could be stolen!). You print up fake business cards that list your "sexual service specialties".

Yes. I've seen that last one. It made me want to fucking throttle him. He made sub guys' into losers in the eyes of every Dom/me and switch there. And most of his fellow subs.

STOP MAKING US LOOK LIKE ASSHOLES.

Thank you.

Assholes.

WtK